Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Before I start...
I would like to say that the things I say for this post refer to NO ONE!
*NO BAD COMMENTS TO ANYONE!!*
Will HAPPY starting turn into SAD ending?
Marriage
to
Divorce?
In the past.. I feel that marriage is like so loving..
Is a blessing..
Family with your kids!
When I first saw my best brother wedding..
Things was very normal..
It may be stress at first but after some discussion..
Everything went smoothly..
And now they are still happily together..
And I would like to say that is every girls dream to have a Grand Wedding..
But will you get happiness or to let other envy you?
Does it means that only Grand Wedding will have long lasting love?
I don`t know..
But what I know is that..
Normal wedding will also be that happy and getting everyone`s blessing..
Because this happen to my friend..
They have simple wedding but even now.. They are still together and so loving!
What I mean is that..
Is Grand Wedding so important, or you just want to let your friend know that you have a Grand Wedding?
If your partner is Rich.. I don`t mind..
But what happen if you came from a so-so family?
How can you have a Grand Wedding when your love one request for that?
Who don`t want a Grand Wedding?
But what if you have a Grand Wedding and after that ONE DAY, you need to suffer..
Wuld you regret because you spent everything on the Wedding le..
Ermm... If you are older you may have different thinking.
Let`s talk about age between 21 to 25.
That`s my age group..
Okie.. At this time do you think that they can have Grand Wedding?
YA.. Only if they came from RICH family..
If not.. At this age, for guys.
How are you going to have this Grand Wedding?
For girls.. I think maybe you are still young and you only thought that what you want now is Grand Wedding, but the rest of your life you never think about that..
You may suffer too...
But one thing..
Don`t forget! You may be pregnant and cause of that you need to marry.
Am I right?
Is because of the baby.. You need to be marry..
And because of the baby.. You dare to request for Grand Wedding!
For example..
Couple A.
They have been together for few years..
And because this Guy was quite a playboy that makes her GF leaves him..
And when this Guy regret! He wanted to save this relationship..
And he changes.
To treat his GF even more better!
And his GF was touch by him.
So this guy is planning to marry her.
And least ecpected the girl was pregnant too..
Double happiness..
And the Guy father who left his when he was young gave him a huge sum of money and only can be taken when he gets marry..
What a Great Father!
But what I can say is that!
He is not because of that Money then he plan to marry!
Because he doesn`t even know till when his mum told him when he announce his marriage!
But his GF was a wonderful girl.. Didn`t request much because what she wants is a loving Family..
Don`t say this girl stupid..
Never request much.. I was thinking that she is clever..
They must be saying why not do a Grand Wedding..
Let everyone ENVY you..
hhaas..
For what.. what you earn?
You earn a respect?
I rather you have a simple marriage and what you earn is a loving family.
You use the money to build a loving family.
Rather den you use it all on the wedding..
I find it no use lor!
This couple is the very good example..
What they really want is a happy family.
I believe that they will be a ever lasting family..
I sincerely bless the both of you!
And I believe you will get everyone`s blessing!!
Let`s go to
Couple B
This couple .. I don`t know how to say.
A good guy?
Ya.. May be...
Actually they have broke off for one week le.
And out of a sudden.. The girl came to the boy .
Telling him that she is pregnant!
And this Guy is now thinking about the marriage!
And for this case!
They marriage because of the baby!
But is it fair for the baby to come out!
They have only been together for 1 month..
Is their relationship that strong?
But I think this Guy really want to be a Daddy..
And he say that he need to be responsibility.....
But did they think that what happen in the future for this baby?
Is it too early liao...
And they are so young!!
Who suffer?
Both of them and their parents!
Because of this baby.. they have no choice but to be together!
And now they are planning their marriage for the sake of the baby..
Did you all ever think of the baby?
You think that is giving this baby a chance to live but you never think that is giving a baby a chance to suffer too?
For me..
If i think that we are not suitable for each other.. and because of the baby..
For the sake of the baby?
I rather be a BAD GUY once then let the baby suffer lor..
What if they happen to broke off when the baby is born..
Will the baby be like a ball?
Push here push there...
Think twice lor.. Is a life time promise lor!
I rather i be the one unlucky then making my own child suffer!
And remember that you both marry is because of the baby..
Don`t because if this baby! You request so much!
Hais.. Poor thing!
If they really loved each other.. take some time ba.. but if they really wanted to have this baby and promise to look after the baby..
I shall give my blessing for this couple too..
Think before you do lor..
Ask yourself.. Are you going to settle down..
Are you going to look after this child..
Are you going to take care of your loves one!
Please suffer yourself!
Don`t let the innocent child suffer!!!
You are still young..
There is always time for both of you..
Baby is innocent!
Couple C
This couple has lots of things..
I can see that the guy is suffering!
And he is WILLING to suffer...
No one can save him!
He is the guy that is going to have a Grand wedding!
But don`t forget .. He is JOBLESS!
He may be rich for now!
And I believe that he may not be as rich as ever once his life time Grand Wedding ends!
Hais, Sometime when I talk to him.. He is like so stress..
So sad.. but some time he is happy!
I don`t know what to say about him!
I think that his partner request too much lor..
As I say.. He is JOBLESS..
He left with this sum of money..
And after his marriage.. he may be poorer then me..
Why he wants to suffer like that?
Do you have brains?
He rather use this money for the wedding!
Is like you are trap inside a lift..
With a bottle of coke..
And you are trapped for 10 days.
What would you do..
I would drink alittle everyday..
So i got enough for everyday...
To survive..
But he rather drink the whole bottle in the first day..
And sit down there waiting for his death or someone to save him..
Why must you do that to suffer?
Is like you left this amount of money..
Why spend it all rather then spend it wisely?
Do you remember when you small..
You learn to crawl before you walk..
But now before you can walk.. You wanted to fly..
hais..
Is this what love makes you mad?
But if you believe that by doing this..
Your partner will thinks that you love her so much..
Then i had nothing to say..
Because this is between you and her..
I can`t say anything and this doesn`t refer to any one..
Is my own blog my own thinking ..
If both of you really love each other
I really hope to give my blessing too..
Take one step by one step..
Don`t cause yourself more stress..
While you have a shelter to sleep..
With your mother caring for you..
Why find another shelter leaving your mother alone?
I don`t really agree with your doing and disappointed about this matter!
Hais..
You wanted marriage, car, hdb, baby..
At a time?
You think you are a millionaire?
Slowly lor..
One at each time..
Above all are example...
Doesn`t refer to ANY ONE.
Or BAD COMMENTS to ANYONE..
I just feel like saying in my blog..
Because is my blog..
I like to say what i like..
I believe that simple marriage will also be lasting..
And may be very blessing..
Look at Couple D
They been together for 8 years..
The have their solonon in the house..
They have their Wedding in the chatley..
And they have been together for 8 years..
With 2 kids..
Living under a 4-room flat.
Still so loving..
And they are so RICH lor..
The husband bought his wife a 20 000k Rolex for their 8 years anniversary..
If you really love someone why care another people thinking or saying..
Think about yourself.. think of your loves one!
hhaas..
hhaas.
MARRY
MARRY
MARRY...
When`s my turn?
I am afraid of getting married so early after the above example...
I really hope to find a good partner to settle down!
hee.. hee.....
